Love of My Life

Sandi Donecker/Photo Duane Donecker

This is something I've been wanting too post for a long time now and now I have the chance to do so.  As you all  know things for me and my family have been rough the last few years, and I haven't gone in to complete detail yet and right now is not the time for that because I have some personal issues going on and can't do that but soon the time will come.

The subject of this post is a wonderful, beautiful, faithful and loyal woman; her name is Sandi Donecker and she is my wife of now 11 years and soon to be in January 12 years and all together we have been with each other for almost 14 years, not only is she my wife she is my best friend. Since retiring from the navy in Dec 2005 I was diagnosed with FSH Muscular Dystrophy and a few years later Sandi with Fibre Mialga.

To date we have lost every thing we have owned, we have moved 8 times to 5 different states trying to get back on our feet and too tale you the truth right now we have finally got to we are rebuilding our lives.  First I want to say to Sandi that I love you so very much, You are my everything. Sandi has stood faithfully by my side as I led this family into near disaster when many women would have left and I sometimes wonder how she could put up with having nearly nothing, but today I know why it's because though worldly possessions can be important to her the most important thing too her has been family, me and our son Jesiah and though I have made many mistakes and have not been the husband and father that God created me to be, Sandi has always believed in me, that being that husband and father that God created me to be has always been there waiting inside me and I am so grateful to her for standing by me and although I accepted Christ as my savior back on Oct 31, 1998 I am just now realizing the power he has place in my hands as a man, a husband and a father and that is what Sandi's faith in me has taught me about my faith in the Lord.

This may seem like I am rambling but I simply want to publicly say to my wife, best friend and faithful companion that God has blessed me with for life and I know that we will be together as our vows state until death do we part Thank You for believing in me and standing by me for the last 6 years of hell but today I vow to you that is all the past and our future is bright because your faith in me has built my faith in the Lord and helped me now believe in myself.

Sandi Marie Donecker I love you forever, you are a great wife and a wonderful mother and I can't thank you enough for what you have done for me!!

Where have I been?

Hello to everyone and I just want to say I hope you had a Happy Thanksgiving and ate a lot, because I know that I did, sorry it's been so long since I have posted in any of my blogs but once again I went into the hospital for 30 days and am doing good, I am really trying to beat this muscular dystrophy, but I am doing good.  I have some pain but not as bad as it used to be. I am trying to walk at least 3 miles a day so my legs and hips stay strong, and now I am living in Spring Valley, Ca. and my walking path is nothing but hills now so my hips should stay strong.  I never went and got the cane my Neurologist recommended I don't want to have to rely on any thing but myself and my family. well this is it for now but I will post more later now that I am settled again.